I believe that it is in human nature to want at least one thing that we either don't or can't have. And while thinking of these things we need to remember the old saying "the grass is not always greener on the other side."
There are several of these instances I can think of right off the top of my head. One from my younger days was wanting a sibling. As an only child with many friends who had a sibling (or two) I was a bit jealous of the built in playmate. However as I grew up I found that there were advantages to being an only child (including have parents with the resources to support activities I participated in).
As an adult, this comes into play at times with jobs, cars, a house, being able to travel and other things. However, I have learned that while it is okay to think at times "I wish (fill in the blank) was different" you have to make peace with where life has led you. If there is something you really wish was different then find a way to make it happen, it is not going to be just handed to you. But remember that one change can lead to others (both good and not so good depending).
What are your "grass is greener..." items? Mine include a career where I feel fulfilled (which I am working toward) and the most obvious is seeing people that just throw their money around like it is nothing when others are struggling to get by. Keeping positive thoughts though and I know that my life will work out the way it is supposed to, especially with my family by my side.
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